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How to not be insecure around girls?

PostPosted: Thu Feb 13, 2014 1:08 pm
by Billy1995fifa
I have always been nervous around girls i like.

For a example i made friends with boys and girls in the holiday campsite last summer and there was this 1 girl i liked who was very shy around me all the time and when i was talking with my guy friends and the girl i like joined us sometimes and after i felt insecure around the girl i liked and sometimes i wanted to sit next to her and talk to her but i just could not do it half of the time.

One time i was thinking of asking her to play mini golf with me one day but i was too nervous to ask.

With girls i don't find attractive i can talk fine with them and don't feel insecure around them and guys.

In the next 2/3 months i am going to step out of my comfort zone and make new friends at a bar and be more confident around girls and maybe get a girlfriend and i know it is going to be hard at 1st.

How to not be shy around girls? How to not be insecure around girls?

Re: How to not be insecure around girls?

PostPosted: Fri Feb 14, 2014 8:46 pm
by Paddington
One thing to remember is that often were just as shy as you are. Try to act confident even if you're not. Remember that your insecurities are in your head no one can see them and no one is going to judge you for it!