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Is it just all in my head?

Sat Jul 19, 2014 10:48 pm

This is ruining my life! :(

It started couple months ago but when i go out and see a girl i like and she is with a another man and just laughing with a guy friend, i get jealous easy but i feel the girl and the guy think that i am jealous of them.

And it recently happened today when we was walking past the swimming pool and i saw the girl 1st, thought she was pretty but once i saw the guy i felt jealous and another problem is when i look at people in general sometimes i feel my face looks sad but really it is not and i think everyone thinks that i am a sad person.

This problem only happens on some days, but not every day.

I don't think i will be getting a girlfriend or new friends because of this problem and it sucks because it is summer and this is the best time to meet new friends and get a girlfriend as i really want to make new friends and maybe get a gf.

I have never had this problem before but i am NOT enjoying life not as much because of this stupid problem.

Can someone help me please? What is the problem? Am i insecure? Why do i think like this?

Or is it all just in my head?

EDIT: one more thing i might as well live in a cave and live by myself for the rest of my life.

Re: Is it just all in my head?

Sat Sep 13, 2014 4:10 pm

I get the same on occasions, I guess mainly it's disappointment more than anything.

It's best to be single than in a bad relationship....trust me in a bad relationship you'll come out feeling far worst that how you are at the moment.

As for advice, I'm guessing you are 18/19 years old? Have you considered going on dating websites? I cannot guarantee anything will come of it, but you just have to ask yourself...is it worth a shot?

As for looking sad and thinking this turns people away from you...is that what you think? or have you actually been told this?

Sorry I can't be more help, I know how you feel really. Someone is bound to come your way.

P.S don't live in a cave...there's no Wi-Fi for a start :lol:

Re: Is it just all in my head?

Tue Jan 17, 2017 3:55 am

enjoying life not as much because of this stupid problem.
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