Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

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Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby DystantMind » Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:47 pm

Wierd title... I was trying to be funny. Ha.

Anywho. All my life, I've never been able to focus. It seems that I'm constantly thinking of something unrelated to my current situation.

Today I was in a lecture. I noticed my mind was wandering so I told myself 'Oi, concentrate!' and it was fine, until about three minutes later when I had managed to wander again. I don't know what it is. It happens all the time. I've always thinking. I'm never feeling or doing. I think alot of it is worry. Sometimes I imagine bad things happening to me. Like if I'm going to a party, I'll imagine people will laugh at me or i'll fall over etc. Silly things like that.

I really want to stop. Its not good for me. Even though daydreaming and such is probably good for my creativity and whatever, it isn't good for everyday life, which is unfortunately tedious and sometimes pretty scary.

Tips, or maybe you do the same?
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby liam666 » Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:24 pm

im exactly the same i can never focus its like my mind cant stop its so frustrating
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby safcjcp » Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:42 pm

im the same my mind goes wherever it wants.
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby Steph » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:08 pm

I get the same thing-my mind is always fixating on something (usually something that makes me anxious) even when my body is at rest.
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby Creative » Wed Mar 21, 2012 9:29 pm

Steph wrote:I get the same thing-my mind is always fixating on something (usually something that makes me anxious) even when my body is at rest.


Sounds exactly like me Steph. I'm usually worrying about something most of the time.
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby Remus » Fri Mar 23, 2012 10:35 am

My mind is like an express train, I cannot never seem to shut off properly, there is always something bothering me especially late at night. In class, I often find myself daydreaming but to be fair, most of the work is rather boring! :P
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby Fryodor » Sat Mar 24, 2012 6:12 pm

If often find my mind out to lunch when I thinking.
I hit myself without realizing it when this happens.
Does anyone have really strange conversations with themselves?
If so, I like to know, because it means I'm sane!
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby nathanw-j » Fri Mar 30, 2012 4:42 pm

yes i have random conversations with myself
does any one else get bored and just switch off
i did in the middle of an exam once, i passed but i could have got a higher grade
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby Bruce » Wed Sep 25, 2013 4:25 pm

Same. Sometimes I'm able to concentrate... Chicken... Usually not though.
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Re: Can't focus, mind wanders... Mmm, chicken...

Postby _robyn_ » Fri Sep 27, 2013 12:03 am

My mind is always wandering, unfortunately it usually to worry about one thing or another. Even right now I'm anxious about school tomorrow and whether i will remember to take my clarinet to school. Really I should be sleeping but every time I try my brain just does not switch off.
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