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Postby nathanw-j » Mon May 20, 2013 4:34 pm

does anyone else find it difficult to trust people?

because i do :(
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Re: trust issues

Postby Steph » Wed May 22, 2013 7:19 pm

Trust is a difficult one with me. Most of the time, one on one with another person, I would say I am too trusting and a bit naive but I don't trust groups of people together, especially when they are whispering or laughing, as I get paranoid that I am the source of their amusement.
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Re: trust issues

Postby Remus » Thu May 23, 2013 10:02 pm

I do not find trust easy at all. I find it such a hard thing to do. In the past, I have trusted people who have betrayed me and broke that trust so therefore nowadays, I trust people even less which is not good as trust is the building blocks to any relationship.
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Re: trust issues

Postby wadey » Mon May 27, 2013 8:03 am

I find it really hard to trust people
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Re: trust issues

Postby Paddington » Sun Jun 09, 2013 5:42 pm

After one particularly horrible experience (and a couple of nasty ones) with a "traitor", I found it really tricky to trust people. But then I decided : Do not judge people by the actions of a few. I now treat each new person as if I had never had the bad experiences in the first place. I judge them on how they personally behave towards me. It took a lot of time and effort in the begginging to start doing this but it has really paid off.
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Re: trust issues

Postby rawr » Mon Jun 10, 2013 8:34 pm

Im quite paranoid, it is very hard for me to trust people and I dont think I ever will. I think its cause I have been let down to much and betrayed. The worst time was with my "best friend" it broke me inside, this was like almost 4 years ago, I havent trusted anyone since. Im now really cynical, but it gave me a whicked sense of humour. :twisted:
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